Archive for July, 2009

Improve Your Business by Improving Your Communications

Friday, July 31st, 2009

As a business owner, would you be interested in learning three distinct activities that if you implemented today would bring you sustained success for your business?

Jack, a business owner of 4 years, recently received a phone call from Bill, his supplier. In the conversation, Bill mentioned a meeting he had had with Jack’s employee out in the field in front of the owner of the project. Jack hung up from that call, walked into his employee’s office and preceded to rail on the employee about having THAT kind of conversation in front of an owner.

Jack didn’t stop and ask for the employee’s side of the conversation. Jack didn’t call the owner to see if there was an issue. Jack didn’t stop and ask if what the supplier, Bill, had said was true. Jack didn’t stop and think about the 25 years of experience his employee has, nor did Jack stop and think about the countless hours this employee puts in for him every week. Jack didn’t stop and think about the best way to bring up this issue.

Jack simply reacted and he reacted badly.

In fact, Bill had misled Jack. The context of the conversation wasn’t out of line and the employee handled it with diplomacy. There was no issue with the owner. But now there is an issue that Jack will be dealing with for a long time. Broken trust. If Jack had understood one of the three activities I’m going to introduce, this entire scenario would never have occurred.

And there’s Julie. Julie has run her wholesale company for 28 years. Jerry, her sales manager, who has been there over 15 years, was holding a sales meeting. Julie never attends these sales meetings and in fact, never asks how they went. Because sales were slower than Julie liked and she walked by while the sales meeting was still in progress, Julie opened the door and told Jerry, in front of his staff, that the meeting had gone on long enough, there were people waiting on the warehouse floor for something to do and his people needed to start making sales calls and start generating work. Then she walked out.

Julie didn’t stop and think how interrupting that meeting would look. She didn’t think how it might embarrass Jerry. Julie didn’t stop and listen to the laughter that came from the meeting indicating people were engaged and actually having a great meeting. Julie didn’t think how her actions might influence the sales staff.

Julie simply reacted and she reacted badly.

In fact, the sales meeting was 2 minutes from being over, the staff had just exceeded their last month’s sales goals by 15% and they were going over some new product information that would help sales for the next month. The issue that Julie created by not waiting until the meeting was over and talking to Jerry alone will impact her company far into the future. That issue: Broken trust.

If Julie had implemented one of the three activities I’m going to introduce, she wouldn’t have felt the need to assert her control.

If you own a business and if you have employees, you have your hands full. But just like Jack and Julie, sometimes we make it so much harder than it has to be.

Want to know what those three activities are that will guarantee scenarios like the two mentioned above never happen? Want to know how to avoid being a business owner who feels you are babysitting your employees? Want to know how to avoid having those horrible closed-door meetings with employees where you have to correct their behavior?

1. Company-Focused Communication.

2. Team-Focused Communication.

3. Individual-Focused Communication.

As a business owner, you have a lot riding on how your business performs. I know I felt that pressure when I was running a company with 100+ employees and it sometimes seemed that every single employee simply came to work, grabbed their paycheck and asked for time off.

I believe that when people communicate, problems are solved. When people communicate, trust is maintained. When people communicate, no one feels taken advantage of. When people communicate, egos get stroked. When people communicate, ideas get generated.

Want to eliminate unproductive behavior? Want to engage your employees? Want to stop feeling you have to be in control of everything?

Start communicating. Do it from a Company-wide perspective. Do it from a Team-wide perspective. Do it from an Individual perspective. Start communicating on a regular basis to your entire company, to your divisions or teams and to your direct reports.

Try it. Communicate key ideas. Communicate key attitudes. Communicate key behaviors. Simply start talking more consistently to your employees and your employees will start talking to you.

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Developing Leadership Skills Starts with Intentional Inquiry

Friday, July 31st, 2009

A successful leader is engaged in their business and they stay engaged by practicing the art of intentional inquiry. Learning how to ask the right questions that require your team to think instead of simply responding, is an art that requires experience and practice.

It’s also the basis for good coaching. Most leaders don’t know how to ask questions that encourage employees to speak their minds. Each time a leader has an opportunity to force an employee to think, to discover, to search for answers and solutions they are helping their company push knowledge into the depths of the organization.

Knowing how to ask questions that get to the heart of a potentially troubling situations or that encourages people to open and share their ideas and concerns is what I refer to as the art of intentional inquiry and will improve your leadership skills.

Ask yourself this question: As a leader in my organization, am I tuned in to how people are really feeling?

Getting leaders to ask questions that relate to feelings, not ideas or attitudes doesn’t come easy. It’s much easier for a leader to ask: how is that project coming along – to which an employee may answer in one syllable, fine. If the question asked was: how are you feeling about the progress of your project? I believe the answer will be much more expansive and tell the leader a whole lot more about the project and even more importantly about the employee.

Why do people find it hard to ask questions? Could be several things:

• Fear of looking stupid
• Fear of confrontation
• Failure to distinguish between arguing and asking
• Fear of too much information

In some organizations the culture is such that asking questions gets you a stern rebuke from a manager. Or asking questions may appear to challenge a leader’s knowledge. Even worse, the person asking questions is made to feel like they don’t have experience.

The art of intentional inquiry begins with a genuine curiosity. Intentional inquiry also must be planned and practiced. And the objective of the person who is asking questions should be to learn. The outcome for the person who is being asked is that they will enthusiastically engage because they understand you are there to learn.

What’s so hard about asking a question? I don’t know. You tell me. Have you ever found yourself asking questions like this?

• What are you doing?
• Why in the world did you think that?
• Don’t you know what the answer is?
• What, are you crazy?
• Didn’t you think before you did that?
• Why didn’t you do ___________?
• Why didn’t you ask me first?

My guess is we are all guilty at times. We are either in a hurry. Or we are frustrated. Or we want to put ourselves in a position of control. Sometimes these reasons are subconscious, sometimes they are intentional.

Here are some ideas to consider when you are looking to provide that opportunity to learn and ultimately to engage.

• Think before you talk
• Ask with genuine curiosity in order to learn, not preach
• Change your facial expression
• Change your voice inflection
• Be accountable for your question
• Practice – know what you want the outcome to be

It gets a bit more complicated because asking is only half the equation – listening and learning is your job.

Does the employee seem to be able to communicate freely with you?
Do they establish good eye contact?
Are they relaxed?
Do their answers reflect the goals of the organization?
Do they enjoy the interaction?
Are they willing to tell you when things aren’t so good.

Becoming better at the art of inquiry will help you become a high performance leader. Take the time to really think about what your goal is with each interaction, whether it’s with a direct report or an employee in your organization. Your ability to connect with the people in your organization at a level that encourages honest and open dialogue will ultimately impact your bottom line.

Here are some ideas on questions you can ask in different situations.

Walk Around the Office Questions
What have you done today that had an impact on the company?
What activity today gave you the greatest challenge?
What did you feel the most successful about today?

Feedback Questions with Direct Reports
-What is working?
-What isn’t working?
-Where do you need help?
-What do you suggest?

Performance Questions with Direct Reports
-What did you accomplish?
-What would you like to accomplish?
-What do you suggest?
-How can I help?

Employee Development Questions with Direct Reports
-What did you learn?
-What do you need to learn?
-What do you suggest?
-How can I help?

Impact your ability as a leader to connect to your employees through the art of intentional inquiry and you will positively impact the ability of your company to grow thrive in good times and bad.

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